laida magtalas and miguel montenegro taught me a few things today.
trust...is a big word. once you've earned it from someone you should value that big word. be trustworthy.
love is a choice. yes, sometimes you can't help to fall in love with someone, but the choice is still yours to give in or not to the feeling. once you've made a decision, you have to stand up for it.
forgiving someone, like love, is a choice. it may be hard to do and it may take time to be truly prepared for it. but you can never move on until you've forgiven the people who've hurt...until you've forgiven yourself. once you've learned how to forgive, you have to make a decision everyday to never ever bring up the past.
be true to yourself and your feelings.
do not allow yourself to be with another person just because you need him or her. you need to be with that person because he or she is the one that you truly love.
be good. most of us aim to be the best. at times, you hurt the people around you because they may seem to be hindrances to your goal of being the best. you forget to be good. being good is more than enough. no matter what experiences you go through life, just remember to be good.
don't promise a happy ending to someone. instead, do everything you can to have a happy ending with that someone.
close the door when you walk out of someone's life.
smile with your eyes.
thank you, laida and miggy. i had a fun time with you and zoila and her friends. i've seen your love grow through the years. it's good to see how you've both matured. thank you for all the lessons that you've shared....this is the time for a big power hug :)
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