infidelity is the cruelest thing that a man can do to his wife. if it will ever happen to me, it will take me long long time to forgive and forget.
ironically enough, i have been a witness to a close friend's outburst when she found out that her husband cheated on her and after a couple of years of not communicating to her, she found out that he has three kids with a different woman. how do you console a friend who is suffering from an indescribable pain? i did the least thing that one can offer to a friend...i stayed beside her and listened to the things that she wanted to say, hugged her when she cried, held her hand and tried to say consoling words, which she might have never listened to anyway.
what would you do when you hear the same dilemma from your own mother? and you see her cry her heart out?
the first thing that i wanted to do was run away. i wish that i heard her wrong. i wish that it was just another nightmare. i had the urge to bump my head on the wall so that i'd wake up from that very bad dream. but it was all real. what would you do when things go wrong?
for the so many times that i didn't stand up for my mom, i want to make it up with her now. i'll help her move on and find her peace of mind.
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